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Many popular magazines have recent asked their readers, what their favorite sex positions are, and not surprisingly, most of us already knew!  According to 5 different polls (read Website surveys, and magazine reader results) top 4 positions are:

Missionary:  The common reply to why, on this ages old boring position? “So I could look into my partners eye”.  This position, while old and dry to more adventurous couples, still brings forth an emotional bond that is hard to find in other positions.  While it may be an oldie, the women still love it.

Cowgirl:  There was a toss up between this one and “lap dance”.  There isn’t a LOT of difference in the reasoning so, feel free to try them both and see which suits you more!  Lap dance is essentially the male sitting on a couch/chair/bed and the female straddling him.  Cowgirl, is the same except the male is prone.  Women like to feel dominant from time to time and these 2 positions give them the spark they enjoy.  They control the penetration, the speed, and everything in between.

Doggystyle.  That’s right guys…your favorite position is also one of hers.  This position is the opposite of Cowgirl.  This allows for the male to be more dominant, and sometimes allows her to fantasize about someone else.  Yep that’s right…it’s not always about you and her in the bedroom.  Typically speaking, from this position sex is harder, rougher, faster, and more aggressive.

The Spoon.  Women enjoy this position due to all of the contact from the male.  During penetration it leaves your hands free to explore her body.  You can play with her breasts, nipples, clitoris and more.  Women also love the “cuddly” feel of this position.  The feel of the chest pressed up against her back and arms wrapped around her exploring eagerly.

I’m curious if our readers share the opinions here…Are one of these positions your favorite?  Do you have a different favorite?  Comment below and let us know.

I bought my first Butterfly Kiss about 3 years ago. It became one of my favorite toys instantly. I wasn’t the only one who loved this toy though. It quickly became Cal Exotics’ #1 selling vibrator.

Instead of being content with the success of this toy, Cal Exotics thought, now how can I make this better? So they added 6 functions, pearlized it, and called it ‘platinum’. Well they named it correctly, because this toy flew off the shelves too. Women who had the original, had to have the new one, myself included, and lots of newbies wanted one too.

So how can they top the Butterfly Kiss Platinum Edition? Easy! They made it in silicone! Not just any silicone mind you, but luxurious body safe silicone.  I am a sucker for this material because I have latex sensitivities, and because is just so silky smooth!

Ok, so I am sure you want to know how it compares to the original Butterfly Kiss. It is pretty simple. It is the same shape, same size, same functions, but it is made of a much nicer, much safer, material. Oh, and I almost forgot to mention the second best improvement! They added a second motor! The internal part of the toy has much more intense vibration than the original.

Overall, great toy, great price (around $20). If you have the original, or the platinum, you need the silicone butterfly kiss to add to your collection. If you have not tried a butterfly kiss yet, what better time than now?

If you haven’t already read my previous review on the Butterfly Kiss Platinum, I strongly urge you to do so!

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We would like to invited you to attend the official launch party for the Nick Hawk GIGOLO line of pleasure products Thursday, April 25th from 8:00pm to 10:30pm at HUSTLER HOLLYWOOD.

Nick Hawk is the star of the hit Showtime® series GIGOLOS, and he will be on hand to meet and greet everyone in attendance.

This event will feature blackjack tables provided by the HUSTLER Casino, a champagne toast, and free gift bags to the first 100 guests. Little Nicky, Nick Hawk’s alter ego a fully tattooed blow-up doll) will also make an appearance. Follow the doll on Facebook and Twitter for updates – and to tick Nick off!

Want more of Nick Hawk? Look no further than www.DateNickHawk.com . Enter to win a Dream Date with Nick in Las Vegas for Valentine’s Day weekend, 2014.

To be placed on the exclusive guest list, and for more details, visit the event’s Facebook page.

We hope to see you there!

Like the Risque 10 Function Plug, the Booty Player comes in attractive clear packaging, and is easy to open. The plug is made of a soft, yet firm, silky silicone. The AAA battery installs by simply twisting the end of the toy. The Booty Player functions  pretty much identical to the Risque Plug. You turn it on by pushing the button on the middle of the base, and again and again to scroll through the different functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Powering off is easy. Just hold the button down for 3 seconds.

Reading the packaging I found that the Booty Call is also 100% Pure Silicone and waterproof.

This plug is also a medium sized toy, 4.25 inches long and 1.5 inches at its widest. However, because of the shape, it is slightly harder to insert than the Risque, therefore a bit more advanced.

The vibration in this toy is amazing. With 10 functions to choose from, there is definitely something for everyone. The Booty Player is just as quiet as the Risque, and for the most part, just as powerful. There were a few settings, however, where the Risque plug was a bit more powerful.

The biggest difference between these toys is the overall shape. The Risque starts out small and gets bigger, where the Booty Player starts out big, and gets smaller. Generally speaking the Risque was easier to insert, but the Booty Player has what I like to call ‘bonus rings’ in the middle. Once it is inserted there are 3 bumps, or ribs, for a little extra stimulation. I thought this gave the plug a small advantage over the Risque Plug.

As with all anal toys, I strongly recommend using a condom to prevent bacteria. Even if you do use a condom, you must still clean the toy thoroughly with warm water and antibacterial soap, or toy cleaner.

Overall, great toy and at around $30, great price. Would definitely recommend to anyone who has at least a little experience with anal toys.

As far as which one is better? I think they are both very comparable, and would be a matter of personal preference. I don’t think you could go wrong with either one.

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Susan Colvin, President and CEO of California Exotic Novelties, says, “Our number one goal is to promote sexual health and wellness, everything we do at California Exotic Novelties revolves around that concept. With that in mind, we’re proud to announce our new team of Expert Sexperts, which includes some of the most talented, prolific sex educators of our time.”

The CalExotics Expert Sexperts are featured in the company’s popular online community, Club CalExotics. Their mission is to educate consumers about sexual health and intimacy through blog posts, forum discussions, online videos, workshops and more.

The Love Birds, Chuck Bird, Ph.D., IMH, RN and Jo-Ann Bird, Ph.D., LMHC, CCBT, are a husband and wife team.

As board certified clinical sexologists and relationship counselors, they are realists, but also optimists, who believe that love can conquer all as long as couples are honest with each other and themselves.

“We’re so excited to be Expert Sexperts for CalExotics! CalExotics shares the same the passion and goals as we do, which are to promote sexual health, intimacy and sex-positivity. Sex is used in the mass media to sell everything from cars to beer to clothes and everything in between, yet many people still have trouble talking openly about sex without feeling embarrassed or inhibited. We hope to help with that!” says Chuck and Jo-Ann Bird.

The Love Birds’ featured role will be as moderators on the Expert Advice Forum on Club CalExotics. More about their extensive experience and credentials can be found on their profile page.

Jaiya is an award-winning somatic sexologist and the author of the best-selling books Blow Each Other Away and Red Hot Touch. She is also the founder of New World Sex Education, a company dedicated to using quality sex education to help men and women get the sex lives they desire.

“My mission is to help shift the cultural view of sexuality from something bad, wrong or shameful, to something that is cultivated and celebrated around the world. I believe that quality sex education is one way of fulfilling that mission, thus bringing people more pleasure and deeper connection. Joining forces as an educator with CalExotics, a company with worldwide reach that also strives to empower and educate, is an exciting opportunity to help people around the world unleash sexual ecstasy!” says Jaiya.

Jaiya will be the host of a new video series to be premiered on Club CalExotics. For more information about Jaiya, visit her profile page.

Sunny Megatron is a sexuality educator, public speaker, sex blogger and pleasure advocate. She guest lectures at universities and teaches at public and private venues across the country.

“I’m thrilled to be working with CalExotics! My life’s work is dedicated to normalizing diverse forms of sexuality and sexual expression. Throughout the last two decades CalExotics has been a major player in shifting public perception of sex toys from something giggle-worthy to something normal and healthy. We have the same vision and make a great team. I’m looking forward to all the wonderful things we’ll be doing together!” says Megatron.

Sunny Megatron will produce product video reviews with a fetish-emphasis that will be featured on Club CalExotics. For more information about Sunny, visit her profile page.

Al Bloom, Director of Marketing for California Exotic Novelties, says, “The new team of Expert Sexperts represent an array of different backgrounds, philosophies, and experiences, which helps diversify our message. We offer so many different types of lifestyle brands and collections—something for everyone—that it makes sense to have an entire network of sexual wellness educators who can cover a vast array of topics.”

Club CalExotics is also being taken to the next level as the company unveils Club CalExotics 2.0. The revamped online community has a fresh look and an intuitive layout that creates a more user-friendly experience. It has new features which will be rolled out over the next several weeks, including a weekly video series on intimacy, interactive polls, a monthly newsletter, and more.

Jackie White, Vice President of Sales for California Exotic Novelties, says, “We want our customers to reap the benefits of Club CalExotics 2.0 and take advantage of the education our new Expert Sexperts offer. Use our content to train store employees, to interact with consumers, network, and for social media engagement. Retailers should make sure they are registered in the Where to Buy section since Club CalExotics offers this resource to consumers.”

Club CalExotics is entering its second year and now boasts nearly 1,500 members. The monthly traffic regularly tops 4,000 visitors.

Desiree Duffie, Director of Public Relations for California Exotic Novelties, says, “Launching the Club CalExotics 2.0 platform is exhilarating, like watching a dream come true. As Club CalExotics continues to grow we’ll keep promoting it through a variety of marketing and PR channels. It’s our way of bridging the gap between the manufacturer and the consumer, which helps everyone come together. Watch for even more in the coming months!”

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Hey guys, had another awesome question come in via Ask Swanky:

My girlfriend and I have discussed getting involved in a soft swap relationship.  Girl on girl and same room sex.  No contact between male and female of opposite sex.

The problem that occurred is she has began a texting/talking relationship with a couple but hasn’t included me but has told them that I would want to be involved if anything happened.  This past weekend they met (she knew I wasn’t able to be there when they met). After talking with them and deciding that she liked their personalities she then asked me to join them.

I felt welcomed by the female but not the male and had to force a conversation between me and him.  My question is am I wrong for feeling betrayed that she  arranged this meeting without me and to feel that she is not wanting to include me.

Reply :

I think that you are a little insecure in this situation.  Not that it is to be held against you in any way.  To feel betrayed that you weren’t included in the meeting is a normal feeling, but on the opposite side of things, it was just a meet & greet.  It wasn’t a hookup.  I do think she wants to include you in things, and that was shown when she made sure you were there joining them.

It is not uncommon in the lifestyle for one or the other to initiate conversations, meet up and see how things go before involving the other half.  This happens a lot due to work and time restraints.

As for the male not making you feel welcome, it happens.  Unfortunately not everyone clicks.  It’s usually 3 out of 4 that do.  If that is the case, I would move on and find another couple where everyone meshes well together.  I would guess (and this is only a guess) that he may have been a little upset with you, because you are looking for G/G soft swap, and not full swap.  A lot of couples ONLY want full swap and hope to change peoples minds about what they want.

The biggest issue I see here however is the lack of communication between you and your girlfriend.  You guys need to be on the same page.  Whether it be about how you meet people, or what you are looking for, or whatever.  Once you get that sorted out, things will seem a lot smoother, and the meetups like the one with this guy, will just roll off your back.

If you don’t want her talking/texting with other couples unless you are there, tell her!  Same for meeting up to feel out the personalities.  The number 1 rule in the lifestyle is COMMUNICATION!  Keep that door open so you two can talk and all issues will almost solve themselves!ts and/or opinions on this matter?

Do you agree with the advice we offered?  You know what to do~

The Risque 10 Function Plug comes in attractive clear packaging, and is easy to open. The plug is made of a soft yet firm silicone. The two AAA batteries were easy to install. Simply slide the base over until it clicks open. I turned it on by pushing the button on the middle of the base. The vibration was so powerful! I pushed it again and again scrolling through the different functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Powering off is easy. Just hold the button down for 3 seconds.

Reading the packaging I found out a little more about my new toy. It is made of a hygienically superior silicone. If you are familiar with my reviews, you know this is a big deal for me. Any percentage of latex is a deal breaker for me, so yay 100% pure silicone!

This toy is also waterproof, which is always a bonus for me. I love shower play, as do many others, so kudos to Cal Exotics for making a waterproof vibrating anal toy!

This particular plug might not be great for beginners, as it is a medium sized toy, 4 inches long and 1.5 inches at its widest. However, because of the design it was not difficult to insert.

The vibration in this toy is amazing. With 10 functions to choose from, there is definitely something for everyone. Even at its strongest vibrations, it is still a very quiet toy.

As with all anal toys, I strongly recommend using a condom to prevent bacteria. Even if you do use a condom, you must still clean the toy thoroughly with warm water and antibacterial soap, or toy cleaner.

Overall, great toy and at less than $30, great price. Would definitely recommend to anyone who has at least a little experience with anal toys.

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The government’s State Internet Information Office (SIIO) said the websites were closed for posting porn images, articles, films, amateur videos and advertisements for prostitutes.

According to reports, some of the sites featured pop-up windows with ads containing “vulgar and pornographic content and ads for sex-related drugs.”

The porn sites hit were not registered with government departments.

China’s watchdog ministry of industry and information technology is also targeting the telecom companies who provided services for the websites.

Just last September Chinese authorities shut down about 97,000 blog and microblog accounts in a seven-month long campaign that accused operators of circulating “lewd” content.

The State Internet Information Office (SIIO) also said the government shuttered 164 porn publications. The anti-porn crusade then yielded 2,446 cases that included the investigation and punishment of 287 Internet companies, and busting 41 rings involved in adult content.

Whistle-blowing citizens who tip off authorities primarily support China’s war on porn.

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